Let kids wash lettuce, choose a vegetable color for dinner, or stir dressings in a jar. Offer two good options instead of one command. When children help shape meals, pride increases, complaints shrink, and curiosity about new flavors blossoms without pressure or bribery.
Agree on a simple dinner rhythm—vegetables first, family-style portions, and phones aside. Decide how treats appear: perhaps weekends, shared desserts, or special outings. Clarity reduces arguments and supports consistency, while flexibility keeps dinners welcoming, celebratory, and aligned with each person’s needs and history.